To those who tell you you're at your prime
in your twenties,
You liars.
Here is what will happen in your twenties.
You will wonder what you were thinking with
that gold sequined tube top.
You will get mono from playing beer pong at
a frat house.
You will wish you never told your mother
that you once ate a live goldfish for a can of Natural Light.
You will regret those pink suede pants.
You will learn how to drink vodka in the
shower and still graduate college with a 3.8.
You will then learn this 3.8 does not matter in grad school. You will feel dumb reading Marx. And you will realize that all that vodka
probably didn’t help matters.
You will fret about not being married at twenty-six,
twenty-seven, and twenty-eight. At twenty-nine you will stop caring.
You will come to understand that in order to
be a good baker you have to measure things.
You will learn how to make a cake and you
will think this will help you keep a man.
You will learn that homemade cakes can’t keep men. And that thinking this way is stupid.
You will chronically worry about losing five
pounds. You will find that no one
notices those five pounds but you. And
that the people that matter probably care more about how you treat
strangers on the subway.
You will learn how to roast chicken. How to kill cockroaches. How to make friends with
neighbors. How to keep a rosemary
plant alive. And how to be happy in
your skin, whatever that means.
This brings us to pasta, which is about as
good a metaphor as any for all of this.
And it’s why I’m giving you my recipe without any instructions. My pasta will be different than
yours.
You may not form it in a food processor. You may not find it equally therapeutic listening to Bill Maher, Marc Maron, or The Splendid Table while you flatten your dough. You may not hang it over mop shafts and broom handles. You may not shape it into little nests
and store it in your freezer.
Heck, you may not want to make any pasta at all. How you
get to whatever you eat will be unique to you. ¾ cup of flour to 1 egg is my recipe. The
rest is shaped by experience.
Whether it’s making tagliatelle or getting through your twenties, you
can’t understand it until you’ve done it. Mistakes and all.
So, yes, I turned thirty on October 1st. And it finally feels like I have my rhythm. My oneness
of making pasta ... and of self.
Homemade Pasta
¾ cup
all-purpose flour
1 egg
This is a per person
ratio. Fill in the instructions as you wish.
Notes:
-I owe “oneness of self and pasta” to my
professor, Carole Counihan. She
said it in class tonight and I must give credit where credit is due. It was the missing link I needed to help bind this pasta post. And she fits in beautifully.
-I can’t
remember where this pasta ratio originally came from. But I know it’s been working for years. I recognize it may be annoying that I don't list any instructions. But the truth is that they probably wouldn't make much sense without spending time in my kitchen.
